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I’m Back!

23 May

Yes, I’m finally back from holidays and I’m fresh and revived and ready to start focusing my attention on my NEW career! In case you missed the announcement, I’ve embarked on a new journey that includes coaching, writing and art FULL TIME! Yes, it’s my dream come true and I’m LOVING it.

And before I show you some super cool pics from my trip, I just want to let you all know that I’m cooking up some delightful things to share with you all.

Members Only Newsletters, Giveaways, eWorkshops, Special Promotions on Coaching and Art…it’s all coming this way so make sure you stay tuned. ESPECIALLY for the Members Only sign up…it’s FREE and it holds the key to awesomeness…just saying. ;)

And now commence the photos!

Seattle Goodness….

Vancouver Living….

That’s just a sample of the hundreds of pictures we took. Wish I could share more but I think my site might implode ;)

Birthday Giveaway Winner is….

21 May

Aggie!

Congratulations Aggie on winning Chris Guillebeau’s book the $100 Startup. Now go out there and make your dreams a reality!

 

Thanks to everyone that entered. There will be a lot more giveaways coming your way soon ;)

Planes, Trains & Automobiles

11 May

Hello lovely people!

Just a quick update to let you know that I’ve hopped a plane to Seattle to visit friends, then I’ll be hopping a train to Vancouver. With that said I’ll be absent on the blog this week. I’ll resume again May 20th. Winners from the Birthday Giveaway will be announced then.

See you then!

MegAng

Sunny Seattle! Working on my tan.

Happy Birthday

9 May

Yes, I’m a year older today. But that’s totally okay because I’m loving life so much right now that nothing can bring this girl down!

*blows party favor*

For those of you who don’t know, today is my very last day at my office job. Yes, I’m casting off the shackles of administrative 9 to 5 life and stepping into my new career as a full time Career and Creativity Coach! (and writer and artist ;) )

*blows party favor*

I wish I could verbalize how elated I am, but there just doesn’t seem to be enough words in the English language to express the excitement and appreciation I’m feeling. And I’m a writer…which says A LOT!

And because I’m loving life and about to embark on my DREAM CAREER I think it’s only fitting that I share this luurrvvee. So today I’m thumbing my nose at tradition and giving YOU the Birthday gift. Cool, right?

I’m giving away a copy of Chris Guillebeau’s book The $100 Start Up. This book will get you all revived up about creating a career you LOVE!

To enter, follow the Rafflecopter link below. But hurry! This giveaway is only open till 12:00 am (EDT) on May 10th.

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Waking Up to Life

7 May

It’s my belief that there are two types of people in the world – those that are asleep and those that are awake. And while I believe all people are inherently good and live their lives from a place of doing what they feel is best, the differences between these two groups couldn’t be more different.

Disclaimer: I want to state right now that one group is not better than the other. I’m not here to point fingers at people and cast blame. I write this post mainly for those who are either already awake or waking up. I want you to know that it’s not intended to offend or hurt.

Warnings out of the way, let’s continue.

So how are these good people different? Well it’s their view/approach to life that sets them apart. I can speak about this from experience because for most of my life I was asleep. I made my way through life in a similar way to all of those good people that are asleep. I went to work and did my job because I needed the money. I didn’t like it but it allowed me to buy things and pay the bills. At the end of the day I’d come home and spend my evenings focused (or rather unfocused) on whatever came up. Cleaning, cooking etc. And then I’d plunk myself down in front of the TV and spend countless hours tuning out life. Just as often I read to accomplish the same results. I floated. I existed. I counted down the days till retirement until I could do what I wanted to do. Until I could live.

I thought this was normal, and I suppose to some extent it is. Perhaps normal should be replaced with common. It’s all I knew. I was joining all the other people before me that let life happen all around them. I watched from the sidelines. I got caught up in other people’s business and lives as a way to live through them. I forgot I had my own life to live.

Again, this is my story and I’m not claiming it’s the same for everyone. I refuse to paint all of humanity with the same brush. But I will say I’ve seen this version of life in many people that I know. I understand. I also know they don’t see anything “wrong” with it. I hesitate to even utter the word “wrong” because it’s not really wrong, it’s just different. Are we clear still?

If you’ve just read the above and you’re angry and feel like giving me a piece of your mind, I wish you all the best. Feel free to close your browser and move on. This post is not for everyone and that’s okay.

If you can relate on some level to what I’m saying, please continue.

The second group of people are those that are awake. They see life as something to embrace and live IN, not watch from the sidelines. They participate, they take action. They are the people that are DOING things. They are the ones the sleeping people watch. Understand?

The awake folks see life as a journey not a destination. They want to live from their values, try new things, explore and follow their dreams. They know they can try anything, they know they can succeed. They see what’s broken with society and want to fix it.

They also know that with this wakefulness comes pain and struggle. They can no longer turn a blind eye to their feelings. They can no longer pretend that these things don’t matter. And it hurts. Because they want more. More from themselves and more from life.

I won’t get into a lot of detail on my own experience because I’m planning and entire series to share this. But I will say that the moment I woke up a few things happened inside of me:

  • I felt a deep need to make a difference. Although I had no idea what that meant or how to accomplish this.
  • I felt as though the world was my oyster. I could accomplish anything as long as I tried it and believed in myself.
  • Fear no longer had a tight grip on my heart. It was still there but I was challenging it every moment.
  • I wanted more from life and myself. It was a deep aching in my soul that made me want to cry.

With knowledge comes responsibility. That’s how I felt, anyhow. I felt it was my job to wake others up so they could enjoy just how amazing life is. To appreciate the gift we’ve been given and make the best of each and every moment.

I was wrong.

I understand now you cannot wake someone up. That’s no one’s responsibility. You can hope they wake up. You can send all your love and support that one day they will look at life in a different way. But you cannot wake them up. I repeat, you CANNOT wake them up. And if you try, you’re sure to get some pretty significant backlash. Trust me. This is experience talking here.

What I did learn is that I am an awesome greeter. I can be the welcome party to those people who wipe the sleep from their eyes and think “Now what?” It can be scary when you start seeing things from a different light. And it most certainly will feel lonely. Some people won’t understand and will try to tuck you back in for a nice little slumber. That happened to me too…twice.

But before you allow them to tuck you in, please know this,

You are on the right path.

I say this with all my heart. I understand and I empathize with the struggle you might be feeling. The pain of wanting more and the unseen force that pulls you towards closing your eyes and forgetting. I understand and I want to help.

As a coach it is my mission to support you in this journey. It is my mission to walk alongside of you and help you find the courage to keep moving forward. I am here to listen without judgement. I am here to provide a safe place for you to explore this life filled with new opportunities.

I can do all this because I have walked this path before. I have fought my way awake and I can assure you I am much happier for it. So let me support you on your path. Together we can battle what lies ahead. :)

Your dreams are calling you….are you ready to answer? Get started today!

And the Winner is….

2 May

Marissa Ames!

Marissa is the lucky winner of the Creative Career Interview Series giveaway.  She’ll receive an eBook of her choice from Sophie Moss’s The Seal Island Trilogy. Congratulations, Marissa!

If you missed the inspiring interview with Sophie and her journey to becoming a full-time author, you’ll want to click here to check that out.

Thanks to all of you that stopped by to read and comment. Your support makes my heart sing!

Oh and just so you know, there are more great giveaways on the horizon here at Write Me Happy so stay tuned!

Creative Career Interview Series – Daniel Swensen

30 Apr

This week’s feature in the Creative Career Interview Series is Daniel Swensen. Daniel is the author of the short story Burn and the full length novel Orison which is set to be released this year through Nine Muse Press. Thank you Daniel for sharing your journey with us!

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Name: Daniel Swensen

Occupation(s): Writer

Website: http://surlymuse.com/

Other Social Media:

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1. Tell us a little bit about your career.

I write for a living. Right now, my first fiction novel, Orison, is in final edits at Nine Muse Press. On a daily basis, I write articles for SEO companies, which is not particularly sexy money, but it pays the bills, and it’s something I know how to do.  And I get to learn something new every day. That’s not something I could say of most of my jobs. It’s some of the easiest work I’ve ever had.

2. What’s an average day look like for you?

I work from home, so I have certain luxuries. I’m up every day at about seven-thirty. I take some time out to read and meditate before I tackle anything.  A little quiet time helps my focus tremendously. Then make breakfast and coffee. I spend about an hour on social media, and then I try to get to work.

I don’t have perfect discipline, so sometimes it’s the afternoon before I really hit my productive rhythm. I try to get my fiction done early in the day, since my creative juices are often tapped out by the time I finish my paying work. Ironically, it’s the directly paying work that comes second, but that’s only because that’s the stuff I can do after the creative part of my brain burns out for the day.

3. Did you set out on this path intentionally or stumble upon it?

Every career move I’ve ever made has been a stumble. I was told growing up that nobody could make money writing, so I just never bothered trying. I went to college with the intention of going into teaching, but dropped out when I was offered a cushy web design job. I did IT for about fifteen years before realizing I didn’t like it anymore, and got into SEO and marketing when a friend offered a chance to go into business together. After that failed, I asked some well-connected friends if anyone reputable needed a good copy writer, and it turns out they did.

So one stumble after another led me here. My first writing job, which was ad copy for cell phones, just came to me out of the blue because a friend read my blog and happened to know someone who needed a writer. So the lesson there is, be on the lookout for happy accidents.

4. What are some challenges you’ve incurred – past or present?

When you’re working for yourself, discipline is always a big one. I hear people talk about how they’d love to have the luxury of working from home, and it definitely has its perks, but it also has its pitfalls. One the up side, there’s no one breathing down your neck to keep you motivated. On the down side, there’s no one breathing down your neck to keep you motivated. It’s up to you to set and meet deadlines, and to avoid goofing off.

Just as important, though, is actually learning that some goofing off is necessary. When your work environment and your home environment are the same place, it can be easy to get into this “always-on” mode where, in your mind, every waking hour becomes either work or wasted time. Especially if you’ve missed or are coming up on a deadline. If you’re a workaholic, that creates a very specific set of problems. If you’re a type-B personality and love to avoid things (like me), it creates a whole different set of problems. Lost productivity can create this guilt spiral and make everything worse.

I also suffer from clinical depression, which means I can, and do, lose hours or days dealing with that.

5. How do/did you move past these?

I structure my day as much as possible. I use Trello to make a list of to-do, doing, and done items, and Google Calendar to set and remind me about deadlines. I try to account for every day and, within reason, every hour I have to work. This method is far from perfect, and frequently goes to hell, but when I start getting off-track I just refer back to the list, reset myself, and put myself back on track. It also helps me clearly delineate my work time from my play time. An unstructured day is almost universally disastrous from a productivity standpoint.

Depression still knocks me back from time to time, but I work hard to manage that instead of letting it rule my life. The terrible thing about depression is that for me, unlike a conventional bad mood, there’s generally little I can do but ride it out and wait for it to pass. But knowing that, and keeping it in mind, keeps me from making it worse with self-blame. That kind of mood will just feed itself.

6. What keeps you motivated?

My wife Gina. She’s my biggest fan. She inspires me, believes in me, pushes me when I need pushing, holds me up when I need a hand. She’s always there for me when I need it. I feel very fortunate to have someone like her, who not only has my back, but who also loves what I write. I think everything in my life would be a lot harder without her.

7. What’s the best part of your career?

Being responsible for my own successes and failures. I don’t have any co-workers or petty office politics or long commutes. I also love the simplicity of my job. Yeah, writing and editing can be challenging, but I don’t have to keep up with cutting-edge technology and revise or dump my entire skill set the way I had to when working IT. The written word is downright static compared to information technology.

8. If you could do it all over again, what would you change (if anything)?

I would get started sooner. Early in life, my dad gave me the old line about how writers don’t make any money, how tough it is to make it, and so on. I believed him because I thought he knew something I didn’t. The truth is, he spent his whole life starting and failing at businesses, was terribly unhappy, and pretty much the last person I should have been taking life advice from. But I let his words haunt me for nearly twenty years before I finally gained the confidence to start taking some chances.

Funny enough, when I recently told him that I was making a living writing, he was pleasantly surprised. There was no “gotcha” or moment of catharsis, because I’d long ago decided that his advice simply wasn’t relevant to my life. I just wish I’d been able to come to that realization within days instead of years.

9. Do you have any advice for someone looking to embark on an unconventional career path?

My main piece of advice is a horrible cliché, but it’s also really important: believe in yourself. Don’t let what other people run your life. Don’t let their nay-saying, no matter how well-intentioned, keep you from doing what’s important to you. You’re the one who has to live your life, not them — so live the one you want, not the one they want.

Mistakes are inevitable. Learn from them and move on. Learn by doing. Get in there and screw up. Don’t lose faith in yourself because you stumble, because everyone stumbles. The difference is whether you give up at the first sign of trouble, or keep going. And sometimes those moments aren’t big dramatic failures. They’re small frustrations that can nudge you away from what you believe in.

Be willing to learn from others, but also be skeptical. Only one person knows what works best for you, and that’s you. In a career like writing, there are any number of people lining up to tell you how to run your life, and the list of Things Not to Do can get paralyzingly long. To paraphrase from one of my favorite movies (Big Trouble in Little China), “take what you want and leave the rest, just like a salad bar.”

The only other thing I would recommend is: create a process and revise it every once in a while. When you’re carving out your own career path, learning what doesn’t work is as important as learning what does work. Being in business for myself has taught me that you should constantly be refining and developing your process, so you can work more efficiently, balance your work and home life, and keep yourself from stagnating or burning out.

10. What else should we know about you and your career?

Probably the most important lesson I’ve learned is that you can’t do something like this alone. Reaching out to other people, not just for networking, but for friendship and mutual support, is one of the most important aspects of a creative career. As writers, what we do is kind of naturally isolating — a large portion of our lives is spent in front of a screen or at a piece of paper, interacting with no one. There are real benefits to sharing your experience with people who understand you, and helping each other.

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A Lesson from the Universe

25 Apr

I’m usually more prepared with my posts.

Usually I have things laid out in advance, typed up and scheduled. But for some strange reason, today’s post never seemed to get written. In fact on my calendar there was a gaping white blank space where a post title usually exists. Now the funny thing is that by the time I realized I had nothing scheduled for today, there wasn’t a darn thing I could do about it because another funny thing happened…my internet broke.

I say funny but what I really mean is incredibly frustrating.

Perhaps I should start from the beginning.

Early last week during my session with my own (fabulous) coach, I made the commitment to take a break and enjoy some down time – a VERY important piece of homework that EVERY creative needs to do. And although I know this….I was *cough* definitely not *cough* practicing what I preach.

So the Universe – in its infinite wisdom – decided to teach me a lesson. Friday I came home from my day job to discover that our internet-boxy-thingy (yes that’s the technical term) was completely fried. It was beeping and clicking and flashing all sorts of lights and I was certain if we got too close it would explode. I may have even yelled at my dear hubby to “watch his pretty face” when he decided to inspect it further.

The result: B-R-O-K-E-N

The call to the internet provider revealed we’d be stuck without internet or TV till Tuesday. 5 DAYS PEOPLE! When’s the last time you went 5 days without internet?

You’d think I’d take this as a sign to start working on that relaxation homework I had set myself. Ha! No way. I was determined to outsmart Mr. Broken Interwebs. So Sunday morning I packed up my trusty MacBook Pro and a stack of To-Do papers and headed to Starbucks for some Skinny Vanilla Latte deliciousness and free WiFi connection. Oh YEAH!

Side note: It was snowing…YES SNOWING! on Sunday so this had all the makings of a heroic journey. Just saying.

Latte in hand, computer booted up and papers sprawled out around me…..no internet connection. Yes folks, my computer WOULD NOT connect to Starbucks WiFi. Nope, just wouldn’t. After several attempts at opening and closing the browser, restarting my computer and having a frantic completely calm discussion with the lovely barista, I called my hubby to admit defeat (and to take his Starbucks order ;) )

As I made my way back to my car I stopped to look up at the snowflake sky. I had to laugh at the whole situation.

“You win this time, Universe!” I said under my breath as I got back into my car.

Sometimes the Universe has to hit you with something fairly big to get your attention. In my case it was a broken internet connection and snow.

I could have done without the snow ;)

 

Creative Career Interview Series – Sophie Moss

23 Apr

Today I’m pleased to introduce you to the lovely Sophie Moss. Sophie is a gifted author who has released not one, but two novels! Her third novel is set to release this week! Thank you Sophie for sharing your journey with us.

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Name: Sophie Moss

Occupation(s): Author

Website: http://www.sophiemosswrites.com/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/SMossWrites

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SophieMossAuthor

1. Tell us a little bit about your career.

I’m the author of the Seal Island Trilogy, a collection of modern day fairy tale romances set on a magical Irish island. The third book in the trilogy, The Selkie Sorceress, comes out on April 25th!

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2. What’s an average day look like for you?

I wake up at 5am, and I’m usually at the computer by 5:30am. My most productive writing time is between 5-10am so I write a lot during those hours. After that, I do as many one-hour writing sprints as I can until 5pm with plenty of breaks to exercise, run errands, play with the dog, and work in the garden. When I finish writing each day, I spend about an hour online to catch up with Twitter, Facebook, and Blogs and then I spend the rest of the night relaxing.

3. Did you set out on this path intentionally or stumble upon it?

I discovered my passion for writing in college and started writing my first novel when I was nineteen. Before I quit my job last fall, I’d been writing consistently around a day job for over ten years. I’ve always been an early riser, and I used to wake up at 4:30am to squeeze in three hours of writing before work. So…I would say it was pretty intentional. J After my book sales took off and I quit my job last year, it was easy to fill up those hours with more writing. Especially, since it’s my favorite thing to do!

4. What are some challenges you’ve incurred – past or present?

My biggest challenge is pulling away from the internet, especially after releasing a new book. Social media is so addicting, and when you’ve spent all that time and effort building buzz for your stories and reconnecting with all your online friends, it’s really hard to pull away when it’s time to start writing again.

5. How do/did you move past these?

I’ve found two ways to deal with this. First, I give myself one month off between books. That way I can focus on social media, study the new trends, learn new techniques, and be fully present online for at least thirty days leading up to the release. Once the book has released, it’s time to start writing again and I begin to pull away from the internet. I have to physically block the internet (either with a software program or writing in an internet-free zone of the house) or I get sucked back in. While I’m outlining my next story, I block the internet for four separate one-hour segments each day. This trains my mind to focus on writing again. By the time I’ve begun writing the actual story, I’ve weaned myself off of it, and I can focus all of my attention on the new book.

6. What keeps you motivated?

I am ridiculously self-motivated. I’ve always been a hard worker so I don’t need much external motivation. But I will say that hearing from a happy reader, getting a great review, or having someone say they can’t wait for my next book is truly inspiring. Nothing gets me more excited about finishing a story than receiving a message from a reader who’s dying to know what happens next!

7. What’s the best part of your career?

The best part of being a full-time indie author is having the freedom and flexibility to write what I want and having complete control of my career. I love that I can organize my day the way I want, stay home with my dog, and focus all of my attention on doing what I love most—writing stories!

8. If you could do it all over again, what would you change (if anything)?

I would have started promoting my first book before its release. When I released The Selkie Spell, I was so afraid that people might not like it and was so uncomfortable with self-promotion that I hardly said a word about it! One of my author friends finally sat me down and gave me a major pep talk. The basic message was: “No one is going to get excited about your story unless you do!”

9. Do you have any advice for someone looking to embark on an unconventional career path?

Get ready to work harder than you’ve ever worked in your life! If you want something badly enough you can have it, but you have to work like crazy for it. You have to be willing to devote your life to it. Live it, breathe it, dream it, believe in it, and then GO FOR IT!

10. What else should we know about you and your career?

I plan to spend the rest of my life writing stories and I hope to release a new book every six to nine months. I love to support my fellow writers and artists! I think the best way to succeed in this industry is to constantly put yourself out there, build your network, try new things (even when they scare you), and give back as much as you receive.

FREE SWAG: Sophie will be giving away an e-copy of one of her Seal Island novels (you get to pick which one you want!). All you have to do is leave a comment below to enter. Please make sure to include your name and your Twitter handle (or email) so you can be contacted. We’ll pick a winner next Tuesday. Good luck and thank you Sophie for your generosity!

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Angie’s Action Tip #2 – 22 Things

18 Apr

If you’ve been following my blog since the beginning, you’ll remember that I started out on Blogger before picking up and moving to my new home on WordPress. Back in those days my blog was primarily focused on my writing experiences. I wrote about my struggles to find my place as an author, posted bits of flash fiction and created a change challenge called 22 Things.

22 Things was created on a day when I was feeling particularly desperate. I was stuck in a fairly deep rut and making a move seemed utterly impossible. How? I kept asking myself. How do I start? Where do I start?  

This leads me to Angie’s Action Tip #2 – Break It Down! (Busting out a rhyme is optional ;) )

When a runner decides to run a marathon, they don’t just get up one day and run 26 miles. Nope, they start by training and running smaller distances. They build up to 26 miles by breaking it down into smaller chunks.  Same principles apply.

Speaking from experience…I’m not what you’d call a details person. That’s not to say I can’t be detail-oriented, I can. It just takes a little more planning for me to make it work. I enjoy focusing on the big picture, I find comfort there. I’ve been know to say that’s just details! on more than one occasion.

But when you’re trying to make a change, big picture thinking can lead to feeling overwhelmed. At least in my case it did. My list of 22 Things helped me realize that every step I took brought me closer to my goals. It also allowed me to manage my impatience, because sometimes I can be a little *cough* impatient *cough*.

Here’s an example of a list you could make if you wanted to publish a novel. Keep in mind each person’s list is unique because we’re all unique! The list doesn’t have to flow in order, unless you’re more comfortable with that. It’s just about getting those ideas on a page/screen.

Goal: Publish a Novel

  1. Brainstorm ideas for a novel
  2. Select a plot
  3. Create a writing schedule
  4. Start writing
  5. Work on character profiles
  6. Finish first draft
  7. Edit first draft
  8. Find Beta Readers to review your novel
  9. Revise novel based on Beta Reader’s suggestions
  10. Research traditional publishing vs self-publishing
  11. Research how to write a query letter
  12. Write a query letter
  13. Have friends/fellow writers read query letter and offer suggestions
  14. Revise query letter
  15. Send query letter to agents
  16. Research self-publishing options
  17. Find an artist to create a book cover
  18. Set up a blog & social media
  19. Network with other writers
  20. List novel on Amazon
  21. Promote novel via blog hop
  22. Work with agent to get published.

You can see this list includes items for both traditional and self-publishing. Your 22 Things list is like a living document. It shapes and changes based on what’s happening in your life. Kind of like a resume. You keep crossing items off and adding on new ones. I usually keep crossing off items until they are all (or mostly) completed before I start a new list. If you want to revise it at the beginning of every month, season, year – it’s up to you. The point is to break it down and watch how each completed task brings you closer to your goals.

And for goodness sake, have fun! :)

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